Reaction

For every action there is an equal and opposite reaction. or so they say...

And for every choice we make there is a consequence.  Sometime the consequence is good - a reward and sometimes the consequence is not so good and we are left wondering why we made the choice we did.

If we knew how things would turn out would we change the choice?  I cannot say I would or would not but I do know I am glad I do not know the end before the beginning.  Every choice leads us down a path and we have the chance to learn what we do well and what we don't do so well.  If we are smart we can take the experience from the choice and become a better person.  For some this comes quickly .. and for some it takes longer to reflect... to find their strength and acknowledge their weakness.

I have not always made the 'right' choice.  I have been slow to react.   But I have spent a lot of time reflecting on where I have been - who I have met - and where I need to be.  I confess there are things I should have done different but I can assure you I have learned more about who I am and more importantly I have learned more about who I want to be.