Life is a series of choices. Each day we make several... what clothes to wear, what food to prepare for each meal, what road to take to work... some days present more choices than others... do we choose to accept the invitation for a drink after work? do we choose the invitation for a date or do we choose a night alone at home?
There are even bigger choices to be made; do we accept the proposal of marriage? do we marry for comfort or for passion? do we marry for companionship or for love? do we choose to stay in a marriage with years of history or do we choose to leave?
Sometimes a choice does not result in the outcome we plan or desire. So how do you know which choice is the right one?
The most import lesson learned is to make your choice based on what is best for you. At the end of the day, as you stand alone... is the choice you made the best for you and only you in that moment. One should never make a choice based on the hope of action from another. We can hope for a choice to lead us to companionship, passion, love... but if it does not we need to know before we make our choice that we are ok with that.
Make your choices wisely. Know what is most important to you, know what is most dear in your heart and follow that.
19 November 2011
Choices
Posted by Odijo at 11:10 AM
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Well said, And I have made my choice I only need to act upon it.
Making the choice is the first step however it may not be the hardest step.
I love you I always have and I always will hopefully that will be enough to help us succeed if we get a second chance.
Strange they say third time is the charm and then there is the fact you where #1 and I hope #3 and 13 is my lucky number.
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